I hate controversy.

This is probably the first and last time I will ever talk about something that gives me anxiety, so enjoy.

This whole week has been filled with controversy. 

Duck Dynasty. 

Same Sex Marriage. 

Brandeis playing Playstation One over the XBox...

okay that last one doesn't count, but I feel the need to tell you 1 thing about myself when it comes to controversy....I never get involved.

Mainly because I am a light-hearted individual that finds hope in every situation. Great trait right? That is why I am able to forgive easily and I rarely get offended. (currently boasting.) 

I married a man completely opposite to me when it comes to sharing opinions. He is always ready to express his feelings, which I think is amazing. He use to tell me all the time to stand up for what I think is right....then I would start to tell him my thoughts and he realized we do not agree on a ton of life changing arguments so he decided he likes me better silent. haha. (im jking...he is really understanding.)

My feelings when it comes to life changing decisions..for example: abortion, same sex marriage, marijuana....etc...is always the same....

Love one another and let God handle the rest.

I feel as a society we get wrapped up in trying to figure out who is doing wrong/or in a more religious stance..who isn't going to Heaven. In all actuality we really do not know the answer to many of these situations we are facing. 

I would never get an abortion, but do I judge those we do? No. 

I would never consider marrying a woman (I mean have you seen how handsome my husband is?) but would I ever tell someone they are in the wrong for being excited they can marry someone of the same sex? No. 

It doesn't matter how I really feel. You will never know if I agree with people partaking in either of those acts, but lets say I was against them..do I get upset when others are completely content with their decisions to act on them? 

I think we need to take a little breather from pointing fingers. 

I understand The Plan and know with all my heart that everything happens for a reason. 

https://www.lds.org/manual/gospel-principles/chapter-43-signs-of-the-second-coming?lang=eng

We need to not start a war amongst the ones we love and care for. We need to stick together and just realize that it is only going to get worse, but also so many amazing things are going to happen!

So many of my friends/family post what they believe and I fully enjoy reading both sides. I feel like it makes me learn more about the situations and helps better my understanding. 

I love America and the power of Freedom of Speech, but do not forget the evils that come with that....Freedom to Offend....Freedom to Loose Friendships....it is all wrapped up in the First Amendment. 

"Freedom of speech in a self-governing society demands that citizens act with moderation, respect, and responsibility."

Be positive. Be understanding. Be loving. Be respectful. 

-Jerilyn